Right, let's have a proper chat about graduation flowers. After 15 years of sending flowers to proud parents, grandparents, and graduates themselves, we've learned a thing or two about what actually makes people tear up with joy versus what ends up looking like a petrol station afterthought, which we all know, ain't good!
Look, I'll be straight with you. When we first started Lily's Florist back in our Kingscliff shop, we had a local mum come in absolutely beside herself. Her daughter was graduating from Southern Cross Uni and she'd left it to the last minute. "Is it too cliché?" she asked, wringing her hands.
A day or two later, her daughter sent us a photo of herself ugly-crying (in the best way) while clutching the bouquet. Turns out, in a sea of gift cards and generic presents, those flowers were the one thing that made her feel truly celebrated.
So yeah, flowers are brilliant for graduations. But here's why they actually work:
Unlike that novelty mug that'll gather dust, flowers create a moment. We've had graduates tell us they pressed blooms from their bouquets and still have them years later.
Trust me, every graduate wants that classic photo with their cap, gown, and a stunning bouquet. It's inta gold (as my 14 year old puts it), but more importantly, it's a memory captured.
Sometimes "I'm proud of you" feels inadequate. A carefully chosen bouquet? That speaks volumes about their achievement.
Here's where people often stuff it up. We've seen it all, wilted bouquets left in hot cars during ceremonies, forgotten arrangements, the lot. So let me save you some grief:
This is the classic move, but it requires planning. If you're doing this, get a bouquet that's:
One of our Tweed Heads customers had a genius solution - she ordered a small posy for the ceremony photos and had the main arrangement delivered to the restaurant for their celebration lunch. Brilliant.
If there's a graduation party, having flowers already there works a treat. We delivered to a backyard party in Casuarina many years ago where the mum had ordered three arrangements in the graduate's uni colours. The graduate walked in and just stopped dead in her tracks, the impact was incredible.
Can't make it to the graduation? No worries. We've delivered to share houses, family homes, even workplaces the Monday after graduation around Kingscliff, Tweed Heads and even Coolangatta back in the day. One memorable delivery to a new teacher in Murwillumbah, her colleagues had decorated her desk, and our flowers were the cherry on top. She called us in tears (the good kind), I took the call, she was so cute about it and very grateful.
Let's cut through the fluff and talk about what we've seen work brilliantly:
I know, I know, they seem obvious. But here's the thing about sunflowers, they photograph beautifully, they last ages, and they're impossible to be sad around. We paired sunflowers with purple statice for a UQ graduate last year (purple and gold, school colours) and the photos were stunning. We're lucky to be surrounded by amazing local growers in the Northern RIvers. In fact, if you're ever near Kingscliff, the sunflowers at Farm & Co in Cudgen are a must-see and it's a perfect example of how stunning they look fresh from the source.
Red roses for graduation? Bit weird unless it's your partner. But peach, yellow, or white roses? Perfect. They say "achievement" without the romance. Ask your local florist to mix them with some eucalyptus and you've got elegance.
These are the happy pills of the flower world. Bright, bold, and they last forever. Perfect for the graduate who's more "let's party" than "let's pose elegantly."
Oriental Lilies - These beauties are for when you want impact. Fair warning though - they're fragrant. Like, really fragrant. We had one graduate's housemate who was allergic, so always check.
Orchids - Want to really splash out? A potted orchid says "your achievement is lasting." Plus, if they don't kill it (big if with some graduates), it's a reminder of their special day for months.
Native Flowers - Proteas, banksia, kangaroo paw, these are having a moment. They're unique, they last ages, and they're very "I'm not like other bouquets." Perfect for the graduate who marches to their own drum.
Mixed Seasonal Bouquets - Sometimes the best option is letting your florist run wild with what's fresh. Our partner florists know their stuff, give them a colour palette and a budget, and they'll create magic for your recipient.
This is the eternal debate. Here's my take after seeing hundreds of graduation bouquets. Our eldest, Asha, is a term away from graduating year 12 at a school on the Gold Coast, so this is especially relevant to us right now:
When it works: Subtle touches. Think ribbon wrap in school colours, or one accent flower. We did a gorgeous bouquet for a Bond Uni graduate - mostly white and green with just touches of gold many moons back. Classy.
When it doesn't: The full school colours assault. Unless you're graduating from Hogwarts, a bouquet that's entirely maroon and blue might be a bit much.
The middle ground: Use school colours as inspiration, not a strict guide. Blue might become soft lavender and white. Red might translate to coral and cream.
Let me save you from the disasters we've witnessed:
The "Bigger is Better" Trap - We had a well-meaning dad order the biggest arrangement we could make. The graduate, at a school in Terranora, couldn't carry it, it blocked everyone's view in photos, and ended up being left at the venue. Moderate size, maximum impact - that's the sweet spot.
The Last-Minute Panic - Graduation ceremonies are usually morning affairs. Ordering at 3pm the day before and expecting morning delivery? That's asking for stress. Order at least 2-3 days ahead.
The "One Size Fits All" Approach - Your engineering graduate nephew might not appreciate the same arrangement as your arts degree daughter. Think about the person, not just the occasion.
Forgetting the Logistics - Where will they put the flowers during the ceremony? How will they get them home? We've started suggesting our presentation boxes for ceremonies, protects the flowers and gives graduates somewhere to put them.
Let's be real about budgets. You don't need to remortgage for graduation flowers. Here's what actually works:
$50-80 Range: A lovely posy or small bouquet. Perfect for the ceremony, sweet for photos, won't break the bank.
$80-120 Range: This is the sweet spot. Enough for a proper bouquet with variety, maybe some premium blooms, definitely photo-worthy.
$120+: You're in statement territory. Orchids, premium roses, the works. Beautiful, but not necessary for impact.
The Clever Budget Hack: Order a smaller bouquet for the ceremony and put the money into a larger arrangement for their home or the party. Best of both worlds then.
After all these years, from our tiny Kingscliff shop to now serving graduates across Australia, here's what we've learned matters most:
It's not about the biggest flowers or the most expensive arrangement, what they are wrapped in, whether the paper was 'eco-friendly' or how many roses was in the bouquet. It's about defining the moment in time and making it memorable for your kid or kids, or someone you know. Some of our best feedback has been about simple bouquets that arrived at exactly the right time with exactly the right card message.
We've been there for thousands of graduations now, from TAFEs to PhDs, from apprenticeships to medical degrees. Each one matters. Each one deserves to be celebrated.
Look, we could go on about our 800+ partner florists or our award-winning service (though we're pretty chuffed about that Feefo award). But what really matters is this: we get graduations. We understand the pride, the relief, the excitement and I am about to get through that very thing myself.
Whether you're after sunflowers that'll make them grin, roses that'll make them cry (good tears), or something completely unique that says "you did it, legend", we've got you sorted.
Give us a call or jump online. Tell us about your graduate, what they studied, what they love, what makes them laugh. We'll take it from there.
Because after 18 years of graduation seasons, if there's one thing we know, it's how to make a graduate feel like the absolute superstar they are.
P.S. - If you're reading this at 11pm the night before graduation, don't panic. Call us first thing on 1800 466 534. We've rescued more last-minute graduation flower emergencies than we can count.
Do flowers make a good graduation gift?
Absolutely. After 15 years of deliveries, we've seen graduates ugly-cry (the good kind) over flowers more than any other gift. They're memorable without being clutter, they photograph beautifully for all those proud parent posts, and unlike gift cards, they actually feel special. Plus, when someone's achieved something massive, flowers just hit different.
Three options that actually work: Hand them over after the ceremony (keep them small and portable), have them waiting at the celebration venue (maximum impact when they walk in), or surprise them with a delivery to their home/work the next day. Whatever you do, don't leave them in a hot car during the ceremony - we've seen that tragedy too many times.
Sunflowers are brilliant - impossible to be sad around and they last ages. Yellow or white roses say "achievement" without being romantic. Gerberas for the party graduates, oriental lilies for impact (but check for allergies first). Or trust your florist with a mixed seasonal bunch - sometimes the best bouquets are the ones where we just run wild with what's fresh.
Subtle yes, full assault no. A ribbon in school colours or one accent flower works beautifully. But unless they're graduating from Hogwarts, an entirely maroon and blue bouquet might be a bit much. Use school colours as inspiration - blue becomes soft lavender, red translates to coral. That's the sweet spot.
$50-80 gets you a lovely ceremony-sized bouquet, $80-120 is the sweet spot for variety and impact, $120+ is statement territory. Honestly though? We've delivered $60 bouquets that made graduates bawl and $200 arrangements that got a polite "thanks." It's about the thought, not the price tag. Pro tip: smaller bouquet for ceremony, bigger one for the party.