Order before 2pm on a weekday, or 10am Saturday, and the flowers are delivered in Ashbury the same day. Birthday flowers are what we send most, and the Pastel Pink Lilies & Roses Arrangement rarely misses. Sending to Bupa Ashbury on Hardy Street? Put the room number in the notes. Buy online from the range below in a couple of minutes, or call us and one of our friendly, Australian-based team will take it from there.
Why chrysanthemums stay out of a birthday bunch for Nonna
Chrysanthemums are about the toughest stem in the bucket. They shrug off a warm room, they don't drop petals on the carpet, and a good one is still standing at two weeks, which is why they turn up in so many mixed bunches.
In an Italian family they mean something else. They're the flowers carried to the cemetery on the second of November, and Chinese families read them the same way. At a funeral they're exactly right. In a birthday bunch for Nonna they land like a sympathy card. Go lilies, roses or carnations for the birthday and keep the chrysanthemums for the funeral.
We deliver same day right across Ashbury, on the Inner West Council side and the Canterbury-Bankstown side. Plenty of the orders we send here are placed by family living elsewhere, for a mum’s birthday, a parent in care or a service at the parish church, and a flower arrangement in its own vase suits the first two.
It’s her birthday, she’s in Ashbury, and you’re not. Our birthday flowers for Mum go straight to the house, and the milestone birthdays have their own range, like the 80th birthday flowers.
Type the card in Italian or Greek if that’s what she reads. One customer wrote hers in German and her mum got it handwritten, word for word. Want chrysanthemums kept out? Say so in the notes.
If it’s lilies, pinch the orange anthers off as each one opens. Once that pollen dries it bonds to a tablecloth and it doesn’t come out.
Mum or Dad is in care now, and the Sunday visit has become a room number. For thinking of you flowers to Bupa Ashbury on Hardy Street, put their full name and room in the notes. A card can be short: “Thinking of you, Mum. See you Sunday.”
I learnt that on Kingscliff Street in 2007, carrying an eightieth birthday bunch to Room 4 at Kingscliff Gardens. There were two Room 4s, one in the hostel and one in the nursing home. I found the wrong one first. She was delighted. She was not turning eighty. The name on the card is what got the bunch to the right woman in the end.
Those rooms are kept warm and the air-conditioning dries the air, so soft petals curl at the edges first. Carnations and roses handle that air. Go low and compact, already in its own vase, because the bedside table is tiny and nobody in that room is hunting for one.
Someone in Ashbury has died and the service is in a church you may never have stood in. First decide whether the flowers go to the church or to the family home afterwards.
For a Requiem Mass at St Francis Xavier’s on Leopold Street, or a Greek Orthodox service at St Stephanos in Hurlstone Park, order our funeral flowers the day before the service, with the church and the time in the notes. Greek families hold a memorial on the fortieth day as well, and flowers go to that too. Flowers do very little against a death, and in a parish like this one they are still expected. “With deepest sympathy to the family” is enough for the card.
Anna’s call: white, for both. Lilies and roses for the Mass, a white wreath for the Orthodox church, and this is the one place chrysanthemums belong.
Plenty of orders don’t fit a heading: a thank-you to a neighbour, a get-well, a “just because she’s eighty-six”. If she’s a lily person, start with our lilies. If you’re not sure, Anna has a pick.
The Rose, Gerbera & Lilies Bunch. In a Sydney lounge room the roses and gerberas give you about a week, the lily buds keep opening after that, and nothing in it carries a second meaning in an Italian or Greek house. Change the water every second day. Bacteria in the vase water are what bend a gerbera at the neck.
Other reasons people send flowers to Ashbury
Birthday today? Get the order in before 2pm on a weekday and there’s still time.
Shop Birthday BestsellersBefore 2pm on a weekday, so the florist has time to build it and get it out that afternoon.
Before 10am on Saturday, because Saturday runs finish early.
No Sunday delivery, except Mother’s Day.
The full name and room for Bupa Ashbury on Hardy Street. The ward for Canterbury Hospital on Canterbury Road. For a funeral, the church or chapel and the time: St Francis Xavier’s, say, or the Jeffrey Bros chapel on Canterbury Road. A mobile number for whoever is receiving it.
Most houses in Ashbury have a front verandah, and in our experience the florist leaves the flowers there in the shade and lets you know. Order before 2pm and they’re there this afternoon.
A florist in or close to Ashbury builds yours on the day it goes out. Ashbury has been on our books a long time: in 2007 and 2008, when we were still sending orders from our Kingscliff shop, it and the streets around it were among our ten busiest delivery areas, and every one of those orders went to the same florist in Parramatta. If something isn’t right, ring our team on 1300 360 469, 7am to 6pm weekdays and from 10am Saturday, or email [email protected], and they’ll get a photo from the florist that day.
Don’t read anything into the quiet. Mums of a certain age put the flowers on the dining table, call their sister first and ring you by the weekend (that’s how it went with most of the women I spoke to on the phones, anyway). When it did go wrong it was usually an address that was really two places, a house and a nursing home, so if you’re not sure where she is this week, give us both addresses.
Usually the next thing you get is a photo of the flowers on that dining table.
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